The Power of Connection

Have you ever felt that invisible thread that links you to others? That moment of genuine connection that makes you feel seen, heard, and understood? Today, we’re going to talk about that thread—why it’s the strongest material a leader can use, and why nurturing it is the most beautiful thing you can do for your life. We’ll look at connection in leadership, share a story of a woman who built a movement with it, and explore the most important connection of all: to ourselves.

Build with Neuro Dope – Neil Hughes

I gotta be honest, I did not see this conversation and connection coming. When my dear friend and past podcast co-host, Sabe Anderson, dropped and email in my inbox introducing me to Neil, I was happy to make the acquaintance as always. But did not see the incredible human the Neil was until this conversation.

Neil is the host of the Neuro Dope podcast and has the incredible ability to recall so many facts, histories, and experiences that he is now using as an executive coach. I noticed the couple of times he even took the opportunity to coach me in this session. It was humbling and I was awe struck with his ability to be gentle and not controlling.

Neil’s Podcast, Neuro Dope, is about peer support. it is a real-time model of growing together in moments of co-regulatory safety.

From his own words,

“It is true. I’m autistic. Very neurodivergent. Podcasting was not something I ever thought I would want to do, but I trusted Sabe. And I wanted to become more than a disabled ghost. I have been coaching people for over 20 years. Sabe was the first person to see me and attempt the impossible–make a record of the light we bear. I am a post materialist savant. I get downloads throughout every episode. 

85% of autistics with college degrees like me are disabled precisely because we are not seen or valued, but many of us work all the time caring for our sick and dying family members. What I have to say and what you will hear in this podcast is better explained by The Telepathy Tapes. Our work runs parallel and I hope you have digested all what Ky Dickens has made clear with her excellent work. We all have value. We are all competent, because we carry the light.

-Neil

If you’d like to listen to Neuro Dope or connect with Neil, you can click here.

Build with Jeff Bettinger

Jeff and I go just a ways back, but we’ve had lifetimes of conversations together in our church service that make it feel like years. We shifted gears into business and I am grateful that I got to sit down with Jeff and talk business because Jeff and I line up as we are both in the business of people. People are the product. They are important. They are everything.

You know that business talk lights me up and gets me going and Jeff has all the amazing insights of leadership in business but also in life. Jeff teaches incredibly well on how leadership isn’t a certification, but a way of being. And Jeff has definitely lived that way.

Jeff’s below bio will impress, but I think you’ll be more impressed with how well Jeff share stories and events that teach the lessons we teach in Build it Beautiful.

Jeff Bettinger is an internationally recognized HR executive, culture strategist, and best-selling leadership author to the show. Jeff Bettinger is a global thought leader with a track record of transforming organizations across industries, from Fortune 500 companies to private equity and nonprofit sectors.


Currently serving as the Chief Administrative Officer at Hudson RPO, Jeff has led large-scale organizational transformations, designed high-impact talent strategies, and partnered with executive teams and boards to drive business success. His career spans leadership roles at companies like Nu Skin, Establishment Labs, Alcon, and Petco, where he played a pivotal role in M&A, IPO readiness, executive development, and culture transformation.


Beyond his corporate leadership, Jeff is an Amazon best-selling author and has been named one of the Top 10 Influential HR Leaders and a Top 5 Culture Expert to Follow. He’s passionate about helping organizations build high-performing teams, elevate leadership effectiveness, and navigate the ever-evolving landscape of work.

A GIFT FOR OUR LISTENERS

Jeff currently owns two Hand and Stone Spas in Pleasant Grove and Orem, Utah. He has graciously given my listeners (YOU!!!) a sweet deal. When you book at either sites, you can use code: CLARISSA50 for half off your massage or facial. That’s incredible! Thank you to Jeff.

Mrs. Utah America Tickets Are on Sale!!!!

Saturday, March 29, 2025

6pm

Murray High School – Murray, Utah

Use code: UTCY for a discount on your tickets – both in person and virtual – here www.mrsutahamerica.com

DON’T FORGET!

HAVE A GROUP WHO COULD USE THE BUILD IT BEAUTIFUL MESSAGE?

I am currently taking opportunities to teach Build it Beautiful to groups and communities – both in person and virtually. If you are interested in having me come share this incredibly impactful message, shoot an email to: clarissa@builditbeautiful.com

I’d love to come share and change lives.

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Build it Beautiful Basics

Build It Beautiful is a comprehensive leadership development program designed to equip individuals with the essential skills and mindset to become effective and inspiring leaders. Through engaging workshops, interactive activities, and personalized coaching, participants will develop their confidence, clarity of purpose, and ability to build strong relationships.

The podcast today is going to do a basic introduction to our structure and the visual that will propel you to be a great and effective leader.

EVENTS

Women’s Wellness Summit – Saturday, November 16, 2024

https://www.womenswellnesssummit.co

The mission of the Women’s Wellness Summit is to amplify women’s voices, impact, and influence through the 8 dimensions of wellness: physical, mental, emotional, spiritual, social, environmental, financial, and occupational. 

​This Summit brings women, of all seasons of life, together to explore new outlets for their wellness journey.