Today, we’ll talk about how to keep your female hormones in harmony.
There are a number of things you can do:
Eating a healthy diet. A healthy diet is important for overall health and well-being, and it’s especially important for keeping your hormones in balance. Make sure to eat plenty of fruits, vegetables, and whole grains. These foods are rich in nutrients that support hormone health.
Getting regular exercise. Exercise is another important way to keep your hormones in balance. Exercise helps to regulate the production of hormones, and it can also help to reduce stress levels. Aim for at least 30 minutes of moderate-intensity exercise most days of the week.
Managing stress. Stress can have a negative impact on hormone levels. If you’re feeling stressed, try to find ways to relax and de-stress. Exercise, yoga, and meditation are all great ways to manage stress.
Getting enough sleep. Sleep is essential for hormone production and regulation. Aim for 7-8 hours of sleep each night.
Avoiding toxins. Toxins, such as those found in cigarette smoke, alcohol, and processed foods, can disrupt hormone balance. If you want to keep your hormones in balance, it’s important to avoid these toxins.
Here are some of the most common symptoms of hormone imbalance:
Irregular periods
Heavy or light periods
Painful periods
Hot flashes
Night sweats
Vaginal dryness
Fatigue
Mood swings
Anxiety
Depression
Weight gain or loss
Hair loss
Skin problems
Sleep problems
Sexual problems
If you are experiencing any of these symptoms, talk to your doctor. They can help you to identify the cause of your symptoms and recommend treatment options.
Here are some of the most common causes of hormone levels to be in dissonance:
Age: Hormone levels naturally decline as we age.
Stress: Stress can disrupt hormone production and regulation.
Diet: A diet that is high in processed foods, sugar, and unhealthy fats can contribute to hormone imbalance.
Lack of exercise: Exercise helps to regulate hormone production.
Medical conditions: Certain medical conditions, such as thyroid problems, can cause hormone imbalance.
Medications: Some medications, such as birth control pills, can disrupt hormone balance.
If you are concerned about your hormone levels, talk to your doctor. They can order blood tests to measure your hormone levels and help you to determine the cause of your symptoms. Remember that hormone testing is a one time thing but female bodies are in constant flux with hormone levels in your body.
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This is a podcast area I want to add into my normal podcasting. It is all unscripted real talk about PMDs so it is messy and real. Anything is on the table and stories shared here might be funny or serious, silly or relatable. They might be all the above. Hopefully something will inspire you to dive into your health and be more mindful or prompt you to share with a friend. Either way, I am here for you to share all the things.
These are six questions that I have been asked recently about PMDD. I was surprised by some that I hadn’t been asked or hear before but all were great questions. If you have a question, drop it below in the comments and I’d love to address them next round.
1) Do you feel insecure or have internalized shame during PMDD?
2) Have you thought you had BPD/bipolar/personality disorder?
3) Do you have a day in your cycle where you fluctuate tears, happy, content, rage, tears?
4) Does the smallest issue feel world crushing during PMDD?
5) Are you neurodivergent?
6) Do you ever feel paranoid that everyone hates you or people are mad at you?
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***Note: these thoughts are in no way to replace your physician. If you have questions, please consult your doctor and professionals for direction before you make any changes in your health. I am not a doctor, just a coach. Also, these podcast may contain information that is sensitive in nature and might be triggering. Please listen with caution. Thank you.***
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In this episode, we’ll talk about what female hormones are, what they do, and how they affect our health. We’ll also discuss some of the things that can affect our hormone levels and what we can do to keep them in harmony – not balance.
So what are female hormones? Female hormones are a group of hormones that are responsible for the development and maintenance of female sex characteristics. They also play a role in a variety of other bodily functions, including reproduction, mood, and metabolism.
The three main female hormones are estrogen, progesterone, and testosterone. Estrogen is responsible for the development of female secondary sexual characteristics, such as breasts, hips, and hair growth. It also plays a role in the menstrual cycle, pregnancy, and menopause. Progesterone is a hormone that prepares the body for pregnancy. It helps to thicken the lining of the uterus and to make the body more receptive to an embryo. Progesterone also plays a role in maintaining pregnancy. Testosterone is a hormone that is found in both men and women. In women, testosterone plays a role in sexual desire, muscle mass, and bone density.
Hormones are produced by glands in the body and travel through the bloodstream to reach their target tissues. Once they reach their target tissues, hormones bind to receptors on cells and trigger a response. The response can vary depending on the hormone and the tissue.
Hormones play a vital role in many aspects of health, including:
Growth and development
Sexual function
Metabolism
Mood
Sleep
Appetite
Hormone levels can be affected by a number of factors, including:
Age
Stress
Diet
Exercise
Medications
Medical conditions
If you are experiencing any problems with your hormones, talk to your doctor. They can help you to identify the cause of your problems and recommend treatment options.
In our next episode, we’ll talk about how to keep your female hormones in balance.
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A circadian rhythm is a roughly 24-hour cycle in physiology and behavior that repeats daily. These rhythms are endogenous, as they are generated by a biological clock, and they tend to have near-24-hour periods. They are found in plants, animals, fungi, and cyanobacteria.
The circadian rhythm is a natural process that helps organisms to anticipate and prepare for regular changes in their environment. For example, plants open their leaves during the day and close them at night, and animals are more active during the day and sleep at night.
The circadian rhythm is controlled by a master clock in the brain, called the suprachiasmatic nucleus (SCN). The SCN receives input from the eyes, which allow it to track the day-night cycle. The SCN then sends signals to other parts of the body, which coordinate the body’s circadian rhythms.
Circadian rhythms are important for maintaining health and well-being. When the circadian rhythm is out of sync with the environment, it can lead to problems such as jet lag, insomnia, and seasonal affective disorder.
There are a number of things you can do to help keep your circadian rhythm in sync. These include:
Getting regular exposure to sunlight. Sunlight helps to regulate the SCN and keep your circadian rhythm on track.
Going to bed and waking up at the same time each day, even on weekends. This helps to keep your body’s internal clock in sync with the 24-hour day.
Avoiding caffeine and alcohol. Caffeine and alcohol can disrupt sleep and make it harder to fall asleep at night.
Creating a relaxing bedtime routine. A relaxing bedtime routine can help you to wind down and fall asleep more easily.
An infradian rhythm is a biological rhythm that has a period longer than 24 hours. The most well-known example of an infradian rhythm is the menstrual cycle, which lasts for about 28 days. Other examples include seasonal affective disorder, which can occur during the winter months, and hibernation, which some animals do during the winter.
Infradian rhythms are controlled by the body’s internal clock, which is located in the hypothalamus. The hypothalamus is a small region of the brain that is responsible for many important functions, including regulating body temperature, sleep, and appetite.
The body’s internal clock is influenced by a number of factors, including light, food, and exercise. When these factors are consistent, the body’s internal clock keeps a regular rhythm. However, when these factors are disrupted, the body’s internal clock can become out of sync. This can lead to problems such as jet lag, insomnia, and seasonal affective disorder.
There are a number of things you can do to help regulate your body’s internal clock. These include:
Getting regular exposure to sunlight. Sunlight helps to regulate the body’s production of melatonin, a hormone that helps to regulate sleep.
Eating a healthy diet. A healthy diet can help to keep your body’s metabolism running smoothly.
Getting enough exercise. Exercise helps to promote the production of endorphins, which have mood-boosting effects.
Avoiding caffeine and alcohol. Caffeine and alcohol can disrupt the body’s sleep-wake cycle.
Creating a relaxing bedtime routine. A relaxing bedtime routine can help you to wind down and fall asleep more easily.
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In this episode, we’ll talk about what the menstrual cycle is, what happens during each phase of the cycle, and how to track your cycle. We’ll also discuss some of the common myths and misconceptions about the menstrual cycle.
So what is the menstrual cycle? The menstrual cycle is a monthly process that prepares the body for pregnancy. It starts on the first day of your period and ends on the day before your next period starts. The average menstrual cycle is 28 days long, but it can vary from woman to woman.
49% of our population is female and 25% of the population bleeds but that 49% all have the same female biochemistry of hormones. Meaning higher estrogen and progesterone (along with some other minor hormones) than male counterparts.
Everyone has someone who has female biochemistry in their lives. It is important to understand that a female is always changing and not more constant in daily hormone levels as men.
The menstrual cycle is divided into four phases:
The follicular phase: This is the first phase of the menstrual cycle. It starts on the first day of your period and ends when you ovulate. During this phase, the body prepares for ovulation by producing estrogen and progesterone.
The ovulation phase: This is the middle phase of the menstrual cycle. It starts when you ovulate and ends when your period starts. During this phase, the egg is released from the ovary and travels down the fallopian tube.
The luteal phase: This is the third phase of the menstrual cycle. It starts after ovulation and ends when your period starts. During this phase, the body prepares for the possibility of pregnancy by producing progesterone.
The menstrual phase: This is the last phase of the menstrual cycle. It starts when your period starts and ends on the first day of your next period. During this phase, the body sheds the lining of the uterus.
There are many different ways to track your menstrual cycle. You can use a period tracker app, a calendar, or even a simple notebook. Tracking your cycle can help you to understand your body better and identify any patterns in your cycle.
There are many common myths and misconceptions about the menstrual cycle. Some people believe that women are “unclean” during their period. This is not true. Women are just as clean during their period as they are any other time of the month.
Other people believe that women can’t get pregnant during their period. This is also not true. While it is less likely to get pregnant during your period, it is still possible.
Finally, and one of the biggest I see is that people believe the menstrual cycle is just during the bleed of 7 days but it is ALL the TIME!!!
The menstrual cycle is a natural process that is a part of being a woman. There is nothing to be ashamed of about your period. If you have any questions or concerns about your menstrual cycle, talk to your doctor.
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Premenstrual disorders are a group of symptoms that can occur in the week or two before a woman’s period. These symptoms can range from mild to severe, and they can interfere with a woman’s daily life.
The most common premenstrual disorder is premenstrual syndrome (PMS). PMS is a condition that affects about 80% of women. Symptoms of PMS can include:
Mood swings
Irritability
Fatigue
Breast tenderness
Food cravings
Headaches
Bloating
Premenstrual dysphoric disorder (PMDD) is a more severe form of PMS. PMDD affects about 2-10% of women. Symptoms of PMDD can include:
Severe mood swings
Anxiety
Depression
Panic attacks
Suicidal thoughts
Difficulty concentrating
Fatigue
Insomnia
Food cravings
Abdominal pain
Bloating
What is PME?
PME is a condition that occurs when hormone changes during menstruation worsen the experience of a pre-existing disorder – like depressive disorder or generalized anxiety disorder. Rather than causing new symptoms, PME makes existing symptoms worse.
What causes premenstrual disorders?
The exact cause of premenstrual disorders is unknown. However, it is thought that they may be caused by a combination of hormonal changes, stress, and lifestyle factors.
How are premenstrual disorders treated?
There is no cure for premenstrual disorders, but there are treatments that can help to manage the symptoms. Treatment options include:
Lifestyle changes: These include getting regular exercise, eating a healthy diet, and getting enough sleep.
Medication: There are several medications that can be used to treat premenstrual disorders. These include antidepressants, anti-anxiety medications, and pain relievers.
Talk therapy: Talk therapy can help women to cope with the emotional symptoms of premenstrual disorders.
What can women do to help themselves?
There are several things that women can do to help themselves manage premenstrual disorders. These include:
Keeping a journal: This can help women to track their symptoms and identify triggers.
Avoiding caffeine and alcohol: These substances can worsen premenstrual symptoms.
Getting regular exercise: Exercise can help to improve mood and reduce stress.
Eating a healthy diet: A healthy diet can help to regulate hormones and reduce symptoms.
Getting enough sleep: Sleep is essential for emotional and physical health.
Talking to a doctor: If you are experiencing severe premenstrual symptoms, it is important to talk to your doctor. They can help you to develop a treatment plan that is right for you.
Conclusion:
Premenstrual disorders are a common problem that can have a significant impact on women’s lives. However, there are treatments available that can help to manage the symptoms. If you are experiencing premenstrual symptoms, it is important to talk to your doctor so that you can get the help you need.
My hope is to educate and impact lives to show that optimal health with hormone disorders is possible. I’m hopeful you learned more about your body and were inspired to make some changes in your health. Also, If you know someone who might benefit from this information and these ideas, please share this podcast and send people to the adagio fit website and Instagram where there are more resources, past podcast episodes, and the ability to coach with me.
We all need motivation when it comes to physical fitness. Personal trainers are able to provide you with workout routines, weight loss coaching, and mental support to achieve your health goals.
Personal Training can Help you reach your goals
We can all use a little motivational boost every now and then, especially when it comes to personal fitness goals. Since physical fitness can be challenging, requiring us to push past boundaries and endure uncomfortable exercise that can be hard to pursue every single day, personal trainers are critically important to achieving fitness goals, weight loss, and overall balanced life.
As your personal fitness routine planner and support system, personal trainers embody everything you need to finally make a change in your life.
Here are 4 reasons you need a personal trainer:
Mental and Physical Support:
“Mind over matter.” We all know that fitness is strongly related to a mental component, more so than a physical component. Your mind is the deciding factor if you are going to push through a routine or not. Personal trainers will cheer you on and force you to push past those voices telling you “that you can’t do it.” They’ll keep you motivated and check in with you, helping to make fitness part of your habitual routine.
Certified Safe Training Routines:
We can become easily bored with the exact same cardio exercises every single day. Who wants to go on the same run, every single morning? Personal trainers are tasked with coming up with creative routines that are based on your body, goals, and capabilities, so you don’t have to worry about curating your own fitness moves. You simply get to step back and let the professionals handle the activity.
Proper Form:
Thousands of people every single year will end up in a doctor’s office from a fitness injury. There is a lot that goes into proper form when weights are concerned, which is why it can be highly dangerous to pursue this kind of exercise without professional oversight. Personal trainers will correct your form, over and over again, until your body grows accustomed to doing things the right way.
Weight Loss Coaching:
Personal trainers know more than just fitness routines; they know a thing or two about nutrition. They will teach you about macronutrients, as well as help weigh you, encouraging you to stick with your weight loss routine. It’s an all-in-one, personal coaching solution.
If you’re ready to live a fit life and maintain a fitness routine that is right for you, your body, and your weight loss goals, let’s set up a consultation call. In our call we will chat about your goals and make sure we are the right fit (usually we are!). Then, I create customized fitness and weight loss or build plans that will provide you with tangible results in just a few weeks. It’s time to make a commitment to your body and your health, and it starts today
Counting calories is a great strategy when trying to lose, maintain or gain weight, but the question is how many should you be working towards?
How many calories should you eat?
Counting Calories with A Trainer can help you have better success towards your goals
One size definitely does not fit all when it comes to determining your caloric needs. Some of the factors you need to consider are:
Age: Calorie needs peak around age 25, and then start to decline by about two percent every 10 years. An aging body replaces muscle with fat, which burns fewer calories than muscle so if you aren’t using an exercise regime and other healthy lifestyle habits to keep muscle, your caloric needs will also from those that are.
Gender: Generally, a man’s calorie level is five to ten percent higher than a woman’s! The exception is during pregnancy and breastfeeding women can need more. But male biochemistry normally has less body fat and a higher percentage of muscle mass.
Metabolism: Everyone has a minimum number of calories needed to maintain vital functions. This is your basal metabolic rate (BMR). Certain medical conditions, medications, and your gender can affect your BMR. In our nutrition coaching we help you figure your BMR correctly.
Genetic blueprint: If you have a metabolic disease (e.g., hypothyroidism), factor it in. If you have hormone disorders (e.g., PCOS, PMDD, endometriosis, hashimotos), factor those in. There are SO many ways our genes can affect your calorie needs and a certified coach can help you incorporate these in well.
Body shape and athletic shape you’re in: These affect a number of calories you need. Did you know there are different body types that burn more calories or hold onto calories more? It is important to look at that and how much you exercise right now too, which is next.
Activity level: The type, length, and intensity of exercise all affect how many calories you’ll burn.
On average a female can eat between 1,800 and 2,200 calories per day to maintain her current weight. A male can eat between 2,200 and 2,600 calories. These figures are based on men and women between the ages of 30 to 50 who have a BMI of 22 to 23 (a normal weight). But that number can then vary greatly taking in the above factors and more!
All calories aren’t created equal
A calorie is defined as a unit of energy supplied by food. One calorie is one calorie regardless of its source (e.g., carbohydrate, fat, or protein). But how calories are digested, absorbed, stored, and burned differs.
A good example of this is 100 cals of broccoli vs 100 cals of oreos (a classic example I use in coaching). Broccoli is nutrient dense with lots of natural vitamins, minerals, and prebiotics. Plus due to its unprocessed nature, it has strong building blocks for your body building. On the opposite side of that is our 100 cals of oreos – synthetic and made for you to not just eat one, but to eat the whole sleeve and still feel wanting.
Eating a diet rich in fruits, vegetables, whole grains, and lean proteins along with healthy fats to keep your weight in check and help you to stay healthy and honestly, eat less calories overall because most nutrient dense foods that are less processed are high in volume.
Losing or maintaining weight
If you’re looking to lose weight or maintain your weight, you ought to consider your blood sugar levels and therefore eat 4-6 times a day. This can also keep your metabolism (what uses up your calories) running. Eating 4-6x a day can make it so you don’t get “hangy” and overeat at your next meal.
Counting calories
Adagio FIT teaches a pyramid of nutrition and on the base of the pyramid is mindfulness. With that mindfulness comes awareness of where we are currently at. So in order to know that, we track our intake of calories and then use that as a starting point to then work towards your goals.
Eating too much or too little
Interestingly enough, you can eat too little and not get results. Be sure to eat enough calories when trying to lose weight. Sometimes people restrict too much, which will slow metabolism, hinder weight loss, and actually make you gain weight.
So how much do you need to eat? Hopefully you know now that it can differ for everyone at any time. Adagio FIT would love to help you calculate your needs. There are so many options for calculating caloric needs.
You can calculate them yourself with a website like this one but it can be a really bad reflection of what you need if the calculator doesn’t consider the factors we talked about above.
You can get a macro count session with or without coaching with Adagio FIT or you can dive deep and do a package of nutrition coaching to learn all the whys of your body. It will be an education about you that will serve you for a lifetime.
Whether with a coach or a trainer or having no accountability at all, how many times have you “set a goal,” only to not reach it and then feel disappointed in yourself?
This has happened to most of us, even me as a coach, and the problem with goal achievement isn’t usually that we “failed” or “didn’t work hard enough” — it’s that our goals weren’t clear and descriptive enough to offer us an effective road map to the end result.
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The goals that you set should be a helpful way for you to nail down exactly what you want to achieve and how to get there. Your goals should offer you ways to monitor your progress along the way. In this article, I’ll coach you exactly how to set yourself up for success.
Outcome-Based Goals
When most people set goals, they choose an outcome they’d like to reach. Outcome-based goals focus on the end-result, and are often number-oriented. These types of goals are very familiar to us, and they’re easy to identify. Losing twenty pounds, squatting your bodyweight, doing five chin-ups are all outcome-based goals.
Unfortunately, outcome-based goals sole focus is on the result, and these goals often leave out the most important details and step-by-step instructions. The most common experience in attempting to achieve an outcome-based goal includes:
Getting frustrated when it’s difficult to make progress toward your goal.
Feeling like you just have to “work harder” when you fail to reach your goal.
Starting to believe something is wrong with you when you work harder and still don’t reach your goal, and feeling overwhelmed with the process.
The good news is, you’re not a failure and there’s nothing wrong with you. Rather, your outcome-based goal has failed you and it needs some revamping. Here’s why.
Outcome-based goals don’t leave you 100% in control of achieving them.
The things you can do are to create the conditions and behaviors that make your outcome more likely. For example, if you have a goal of squatting your bodyweight, but you do random workouts and don’t have a training program that includes squatting or other exercises that might help you increase the amount of weight you can squat, part of your road map to goal achievement is missing.
Using a training program that is progressive, includes squatting as a main exercise, and that you do a few times each week consistently over a period of months will make it more likely for you to achieve your goal of squatting your bodyweight.
Outcome-based goals might be unrealistic or lead to feelings of overwhelm.
Sometimes outcome-based goals can feel really far away and although the end result is something you really want to reach, the process of getting there might seem insurmountable, especially if your road map isn’t clear.
For example, let’s say you’ve never exercised with consistency before and are really hoping to get in shape by starting to train and by changing the way you eat. Overhauling your life might include making sweeping changes to the way you exercise, shop and prepare your food, plan your daily, weekly, and monthly schedules, and how you prioritize your rest, recovery, and self-care.
This requires making a ton of changes, some of which probably aren’t realistic or sustainable if you’re just getting started, which feeds feelings of overwhelm. These feelings of overwhelm might actually be a barrier to even getting started.
Outcome-based goals don’t necessarily address the root cause for wanting change, which makes it hard to identify concrete steps that align with your value. Many of us assume that achieving a particular outcome will lead to increased happiness and satisfaction, which is often not the case. Just because you reach a goal you’ve set for yourself doesn’t mean you’ll feel satisfied with the results, especially if you haven’t figured out exactly why you wanted to make that change in the first place.
For example, some women want to change their body composition by losing a significant amount of body fat. When some women do achieve their goal, they still feel unsatisfied if their body doesn’t look or feel the way they expected it to.
They might feel shame because they were chasing a “look” that they thought would bring about a certain feeling or emotional state. They assumed that being leaner would make them happier. What they didn’t do was figure out exactly why they wanted to be leaner in the first place.
All of this seems frustrating, right? So what’s the solution? Set behavior-based goals that lead you toward a desired outcome.
Behavior-Based Goals
Behavior-based goals are a stronger alternative to outcome-based goals, and provide you with a roadmap of actions you can take that lead you toward the results you’re chasing. These types of goals put you in the driver’s seat and more in control of the process of reaching your goal. In fact, the entire focus of behavior-based goals is the process itself. This is how I coach.
By digging into exactly what you want to achieve (your outcome) and why it’s important to you, it’ll be easier to identify the steps that make goal achievement more likely.
If you know why something’s important to you, you should be able to evaluate what you’re willing (or not willing to do) to get there. This puts you in control of your actions and behaviors and gives you a systematic way of achieving your goal. The process of goal achievement should feel less overwhelming and more satisfying because you’re becoming the person who “does the things” to reach your goal.
This approach typically allows you to have a more positive mindset along the way because you’re consistently racking up small “wins” when you take each small step toward your goal. All of these things lead you to experiencing more success.
Big Rocks vs. Small Rocks
When looking to identify behavior-based goals, we suggest that you focus first on what we consider the “big rocks,” which form the foundation of a healthy lifestyle. Big rocks include getting adequate restorative sleep, drinking enough water, managing stress, eating nourishing food, moving meaningfully, and doing these things consistently. The idea is that if you can’t consistently practice these habits, then the “small rocks” (such as choosing to add cream to your coffee or not) won’t impact your ability to get results as much as the “big rocks” will.
On a side note, you want to make sure you aren’t loading your jar with too many big rocks or nothing will fit— make sure you aren’t spread too thin with too many behavior to dos. Also, as your coach I remind you that there will always be more rocks than can fit in your jar, so choosing wisely which rocks you want is important.
So, how do you set a behavior-based goal?
1. Identify Your Outcome Goal
Determine the long-range thing you’d like to achieve, and think about why it’s important to you. How do you think you’ll feel by achieving it? Does it align with the resources (time, energy, money, etc.) that you have available, and with your values and priorities? If so, move on to step two.
2. Assess What You’re Doing
Next, do an assessment of what you’re doing currently that is moving you toward that outcome. List things that might be challenging for you along the way, as well as the areas you are confident in making changes. Where are the opportunities you can make small, realistic changes that move you toward your goal?
3. Choose Next Steps
Create realistic, actionable behavior-based goals that lead to your outcome. Each of these little steps acts as a rung on the ladder that leads to your goal. Each step might seem small, but all together they take you closer to where you want to go.
4. Prioritize
Rank your confidence based on the frequency you’ll need to take each action and the resources you have. Prioritize the actions you’ll take first, and remember to make small changes one at a time.
5. Track Your Progress
Choose a method for tracking your behavior-based goals in order to monitor your progress. This may be a simple check mark in a notebook, or you may choose something like an app to keep track of your changes.
6. Start With The First Behavior-Based Goal
Start tracking one behavior-based goal. On a confidence scale of 1 to 10 you should feel like you are at a 9 or 10 out of 10 that you can complete that behavior. Track for two weeks and then evaluate for consistency. If you completed that behavior 80 percent of the time over the previous two weeks, choose a new action to start tracking.
If you didn’t reach 80 percent consistency with that behavior, do a check-in to assess whether it was really realistic for you. If it’s something you’d like to continue monitoring for a while longer, go for it. If it was originally unrealistic, scale it down to something you can definitely do.
Coaches’ Corner
As a coach or trainer, my clients come to me with their goals. It’s my job to help them translate outcome-based goals into actionable behavior-based goals.
I coach them to:
Figure out why that goal is meaningful or important to them.
Identify whether that goal aligns with their priorities and values.
Clarify and refine concrete and manageable actions they can take.
Manage their time by guiding where to place their energy.
As a coach, the process for taking a goal from outcome to behaviors looks like this.
As a coach, I will assess my client’s current training, nutrition, rest and recovery strategies. I’ll take a look at their lifestyle, work schedule, leisure activities, commitments, and weekly schedule. We discuss what they might be ready to change, as well as the barriers they might encounter.
Then we set behavior-based goals based on their outcome goals, and keep in mind that the actions they take to move them toward their outcome have a lot to do with “big rocks” and less to do with “small rocks.” Big rocks include getting adequate restorative sleep, drinking enough water, managing stress, eating nourishing food, moving meaningfully, and doing these things consistently. Big rocks move the dial, while small rocks are very small, nuanced actions that won’t make much difference in goal achievement unless the big rocks are in place.
As a coach and trainer we will start with small changes my client can confidently make first. I help them create routines to make these actions more likely. I stay involved throughout the process of goal achievement and evaluate their progress and help them through stalls in progress, over roadblocks, and problem-solving when they arefeeling challenged.
I help you through behaviors to get in the best shape of your life—for good.
With adagio FIT Training and Coaching, you’ll get the support, accountability, and expert education to eat and exercise in a sustainable way — without restrictive diets or spending your life in the gym.
Whether your health and fitness goals are to…
Get stronger
Gain muscle
Lose body fat
Improve your pull-ups
Have a safe and healthy pregnancy
Return to exercise safely postpartum
Heal your relationship with food
Balance your hormones/disorders
Increase your confidence
… or anything else, we’ll help you achieve them. You can experience life-changing results while eating and exercising in a way that actually fits into your life — instead of controlling it.
You’ll learn how to:
Improve your nutrition without giving up the foods you love
Exercise safely and effectively so you’re getting maximum results from your workouts without burning yourself out
Increase your confidence, love the way your body looks, feels, and performs — and enjoy your life more than you ever thought possible
And you’ll become the happiest, fittest, strongest version of yourself, one step at a time.
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It’s almost the end of the year, so within the next couple of weeks most of us will be making our resolutions for next year. Even as a personal trainer and health coach I make them too!
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As of this month I’ve been coaching for seven years.
At the studios, the studios are usually packed every January first with people with New Year’s resolutions. Then, by the middle to the end of January the studio dies down to back to normal numbers with a few new faces continuing on, but lots gone.
What happens during those first 2 or 3 weeks of January?
Why is it so hard to stick to our New Year’s resolutions especially with fitness?
It is estimated that over 95% of us fail at our New Year’s resolutions. By fail I mean, failing = giving up.
Here are the top 5 reasons why we fail at our fitness resolutions.
1. Overwhelm: we overload ourselves with too many resolutions. We have fitness goals, nutrition goals, financial goals, relationship goals, we have goals for our spouse and even for our kids. We simply can’t handle that many serious goals.
Studies show that when we try to take on more than one life-changing goal at a time our success rate is near nil. We simply don’t have the necessary will power and energy to focus on more than one at a time.
Fortunately, willpower is like a muscle, it gets stronger as we use it But it also is finite. Overload it and you’ll run out too fast as well.
Solution: simplify and commit to one big goal. Once that goal becomes a habit and it doesn’t take so much energy and will power to complete, then you can start working on a different resolution.
2. Lack of a plan: When one creates a resolution without a plan they lack direction and step to get there. Just like those with fitness goals going into a gym for their first time; walking around not knowing what to do next. There was no order or direction to their workout. The workout was purely left to chance.
The cardio deck, however, is always packed. This happens for a couple of reasons. One, it’s the default form of exercise especially for those that don’t feel comfortable lifting weights. And, I get it. It’s a lot easier figuring out how to set up the treadmill than designing a strength training workout and figuring out lifting technique.
And, reason number two, many people still falsely believe cardio to be the best form of exercise for fat loss despite dozens of studies pointing out how ineffective it is and that it is often counterproductive (people can actually get fatter from doing cardio). I see this in the studios a lot when women who have worked out for months complain that their body hasn’t changed even though they are working out so hard doing all these cardio classes.
Solution: hire a trainer to set you up on a program, or at the worst find a program online that targets the same goal you have and then watch some YouTube videos to learn technique.
3. Unrealistic expectations: We live in an extremely fast paced world. We can cue up any movie or TV show and watch it at any time. We can literally order anything in the world and have it shipped to us “next day “. We’re impatient, we want our perfect body and we want it yesterday.
Setting unrealistic goals is a dead end road. Instead of a goal being motivating, the goal becomes demoralizing and shame full. Week in and week out we beat ourselves up because we’re not hitting our numbers. So, of course, after a few weeks of that we’re gonna throw in the towel.
Solution: Hire a trainer. With their experience they can guide you to realistic expectations. Also, when setting a goal ask yourself how confident are you that you can accomplish it. If you’re not 90-100% confident that you can do it then modify it to the point that you are at least 90% confident.
Another part of being realistic is to expect plateaus. Nobody gets consistent progress week in and week out. There will be setbacks. Accept this fact and the road accomplishing your new year’s resolution will be a lot more enjoyable.
4. Skipping the goal setting process: “If you fail to plan, plan to fail.”
When talking to my clients about goals we talk about 3 types of goals: outcome goals, behavioral goals and purpose goals. When we first meet we will talk about these three types of goals.
At bare minimum you need to decide “what” it is that you’re trying to accomplish and then commit it to paper.
A goal gives you direction and writing it down helps hold you accountable while motivating you at the same time.
“An arrow without a target always hits its mark.” If you have vague goals your results will be vague as well.
So.. get super specific with your goals and review them daily.
Solution: carve out 20 minutes to visualize your goals and commit them in detail to paper. Then, review them daily. Remember to keep them simple and break them down #1 and #2 from above.
5. No accountability: Personal accountability is an oxymoron. By definition, you can not hold yourself accountable. There has to be a second person involved, a second person to which you report. Otherwise, it’s human nature to slack.
Accountability is the number one thing new clients ask me to do for them. It is usually why they hire me as their trainer or coach.
They want me to make sure they make it to their workouts and follow through with their nutrition goals.
Even without a trainer, studies have shown that just having a workout buddy can make a positive difference on consistency with your fitness goals.
Solution: hire a trainer to hold you accountable or at the very least find a buddy to hit the gym with and report to each other on your nutrition.
I teach my clients to make things effortless. Then they don’t have to think about winning, it is already set up for them. So for you, almost all of these five mistakes can be resolved by enlisting the help of a trainer or coach.
I believe this is a life lesson that crosses over to all aspects of life.
If you want to improve your golf swing, hire a golf pro.
If you want to get out of debt and prepare for retirement, hire a financial planner.
If you want to start a new business, hire a business coach.
The point is you don’t have to recreate the wheel with your fitness. An experienced trainer has “been there, done that” and they can get you to your goal in the shortest time possible.
Speaking of hiring a personal trainer or coach, I’d love to be yours.
It fixes all of the above mistakes and you’ll create the lifestyle that you envision for a healthy, happy life.
You will get world class training, nutrition coaching and accountability. And right now, I am offering a discounted rate going into the new year.
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