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From Survivor to Experiencer: Ashley Butler's Journey

From Survivor to Experiencer: Ashley Butler’s Journey

Posted on by Clarissa Thomas

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Go from being a Survivor to an Experiencer. That is what Ashley Butler is here to talk to us about today. Ashley and I navigated our thoughts around leadership and life during Build it Beautiful. Ashley has built a beautiful life that “starts in her own home.”

Ashley wrote in her bio:

A bio is much like an active ingredient list. The first thing mentioned has the highest concentration which ultimately means it’s the largest portion of the product. This is why most women (aka the product) with children will essentially list their offspring as their “first ingredient.”  Children may be a product OF YOU, but they do not make up who YOU actually are. 

So who am I? 

I am a highly energetic woman filled with humor and laughter. I firmly believe that everything can be funny if you let it be.  

I don’t love the idea of wearing a busy badge, but I fill my time with my favorite activities: taking a bath, playing pickleball, watching movies, traveling, paper crafting, organizing, southern cooking, lifting, and hosting parties.

I’m a pretty high functioning ADHD person who quickly moves from one activity to the next, allowing much to get done but then nothing to get done all at the same time. 

I am a lover. I love people and serve them often through ways of friendship, inclusion, listening, hearing and seeing them as a person. 

I am currently serving my community as Mrs. Mountain Ridge. My husband and I have been married for 20 years and have lived in Herriman for 10 with our 4 children.

And I couldn’t agree with her more. She embodies this to a T.

If you’d like to find Ashely, you can at @ashleysorensen_butler on Instagram

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Saturday, March 29, 2025

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The Pillar of ConNECTION

The Pillar of ConNECTION

Posted on by Clarissa Thomas

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The Essence of Connection

Connection is the cornerstone of leadership. It’s about building genuine relationships, fostering empathy, and inspiring others. When we connect with people on a deeper level, we create a sense of belonging, trust, and shared purpose.

the goal: weave a rich tapestry of relationships

Why Connection Matters

  • Stronger Teams: Connection fosters collaboration, teamwork, and a positive work environment.
  • Increased Productivity: Engaged and connected teams are more productive and innovative.
  • Improved Morale: Strong relationships boost morale and job satisfaction.
  • Enhanced Reputation: A reputation for strong relationships can open doors to new opportunities.

Tips for Building Strong Connections:

  • Active Listening: Give your full attention to others and truly listen to what they have to say.
  • Empathy: Put yourself in other people’s shoes and understand their perspective.
  • Authenticity: Be genuine and authentic in your interactions.
  • Vulnerability: Share your own experiences and challenges to build trust.
  • Positive Reinforcement: Recognize and appreciate the contributions of others.

Conclusion

Humans are social creatures. We crave connection like plants crave sunlight. It is the invisible thread that binds us to others, fostering a sense of belonging, purpose, and joy. It is the foundation of strong relationships, vibrant communities, and a flourishing society. Connection is essential. Connection isn’t just about being in the same space as others; it’s about forming genuine bonds, building trust, and sharing a sense of shared understanding. It’s about feeling seen, heard, and valued for who you truly are.

By prioritizing connection, you can create a more positive and fulfilling work environment, build stronger relationships, and achieve greater success. Remember, the power of connection is a powerful tool for leaders.

NOTES

Check out our Book of Beautiful Bowls Here. Fourteen amazing bowls to feed your family and your soul. Filled with cuisines from around the world, you won’t be lacking in any more menus for your week.

Pillar of clarity

Pillar of clarity

Posted on by Clarissa Thomas

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In this episode of Build It Beautiful, we dive deep into the power of clarity. Learn how to define your vision, set clear goals, and communicate effectively to inspire and motivate your team. Discover practical strategies to eliminate confusion, boost productivity, and achieve remarkable results. Whether you’re a seasoned leader or just starting your journey, this episode will provide you with the tools and insights you need to lead with clarity and confidence.

  • When we have clarity, we know what we want, why we want it, and how to achieve it. We are able to make informed decisions and take action with purpose.
  • Clarity acts as a guiding light, illuminating the path towards joyful living. It empowers us to make informed choices, prioritize our actions, and navigate life with purpose. 
  • Visual (line from two points) — Realistic Line (crazy between two points)

Activities

  • Get Outside the Box (5 Mins)
    • Write down as many goals as possible
    • Circle only three you’d like to focus on
  • Future Backtrack
    • Put yourself in the future when you have accomplished this goal
    • Ask yourself what you did to reach this goal
    • Write down all the things you did
    • Keep asking yourself until you get to the simple daily things you did to reach the goal
    • This will create a timeline and course for you to follow
  • The Gap and the Gain – Measure the Gains – Fence Posts

EVENTS

Women’s Wellness Summit – Saturday, November 16, 2024

https://www.womenswellnesssummit.co

The mission of the Women’s Wellness Summit is to amplify women’s voices, impact, and influence through the 8 dimensions of wellness: physical, mental, emotional, spiritual, social, environmental, financial, and occupational. 

​This Summit brings women, of all seasons of life, together to explore new outlets for their wellness journey. 

Use code: HAND10 for a discount on tickets

Foundation of belifs and Values

Foundation of belifs and Values

Posted on by Clarissa Thomas

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To be a great leader, you need to make sure that you have a strong foundation. Your foundation is built with your beliefs and values.

Beliefs and values are fundamental principles that shape our worldview and guide our actions. Beliefs are convictions or opinions held to be true, while values are deeply held principles that inform our choices and behaviors. They can be personal, cultural, religious, or philosophical.

Beliefs and values are closely intertwined. Our beliefs often influence our values, and our values can shape our beliefs. For example, a belief in equality may lead to a value of fairness, while a value of honesty may be rooted in the belief that truthfulness is important.

Beliefs and values can have a profound impact on our lives. They can influence our relationships, our careers, and our overall well-being. Understanding our own beliefs and values can help us make more informed decisions and live more authentically.

So the question becomes:

Who do you want to be? 

ActivitY TO DEFINE YOUR VALUES AND BELIEFS

  • Write your Eulogy
    • A eulogy is a speech or piece of writing that praises a deceased person. It typically reflects on the person’s life, achievements, and impact on others. Eulogies are often delivered at funerals or memorial services to honor the memory of the deceased and provide comfort to their loved ones.
    • You will write yours as if you have died and you are giving a sketch about your life as defined above.
  • Now ask yourself if you are taking action to become that person.
    • Take another minute to write how you feel about that.
      • Are there things you need to stop doing, start doing, or continue doing?

EVENTS

Women’s Wellness Summit – Saturday, November 16, 2024

https://www.womenswellnesssummit.co

The mission of the Women’s Wellness Summit is to amplify women’s voices, impact, and influence through the 8 dimensions of wellness: physical, mental, emotional, spiritual, social, environmental, financial, and occupational. 

​This Summit brings women, of all seasons of life, together to explore new outlets for their wellness journey. 

Use code: HAND10 for a discount on tickets